Why does it hurt?

Why does it hurt when someone you cared about no longer cares for you? Why does only ONE person feel the pain and the other feel happiness and relief? Why couldn't I be the one to feel the happiness and relief?

I wish I never met you. I wish I never saw you. I wish you would just go away!

No one likes to be lied to, yet it happens every day. Wether it be a little white lie or a lie that will impact millions! We all lie, and if by any means there is someone out there that DOESN'T lie... Id like to meet him or her, shake their hand and give them a huge pat on the back. But it so happens that I highly doubt that such a person exists in this day and age. Back to what I was saying, lies hurt. Maybe not at the initial time its told, but in the end it always hurts. I find that the lies of a relationship hurt the most. The promises of a happy ending, false hope just pouring down on you like a rainstorm. Indeed, those lies hurt the most. Now that its over, how do I get past all these lies? How do I forgive not only the ones who hurt me, but also myself for being so naive. How am I to TRUST again?

Sincerely, yours truly, dearly...etc...

Me